The Best Ways to Ask Someone Out #NoShame

You asked, so here it goes. Many of you have written in asking for creative ways to ask a guy out. Well, I’ll be honest, the only way to get creative, is to get a little desperate, grow some balls and have no shame. Bottom line is, there is no right way. One thing to...
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Are You in a Hidden Relationship? STOP. It. Now.

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Alright boys. There seems to be a universal problem going around the gay community and no, I am not talking about meth (that is a whole different story). So many of you have written into “Ask Jonny” about being in relationships with men that are either taken, in open relationships or even “straight”. I have...
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My First Time At a Gay Bar…#Awkward

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I honestly do not know which is worse, losing your virginity or going to a gay bar for the first time. For me, they both elicited  the same feelings. I was nervous, scared, excited, turned on and yet, I just wanted to get it over with. Both are milestones in a gay man’s life, yet...
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Dating 101 for the Modern Gay Man

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Don’t you love it when you hear a straight girl say “dating is so hard.” My response? TRY BEING A GAY MAN.  YES, it is harder for us to date.  No, it’s not just figuring out who the top and who the bottom is. It seems as though dating has been lost within the gay...
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